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Trust the Man

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2005 | 103 min | Comedy, Drama, Romance

Weeknight Watchearly rating

Why it’s a Weeknight Watch

With almost no lasting buzz and middling reviews (28% on Rotten Tomatoes), it's a mixed bag. Fine if it's on; don't plan your night around it.

Based on critics, audiences, awards, box office and buzz. Details below.

Is it for you?

Who'll love it
Tailor-made for anyone in the mood for a love story and fans of a well-timed joke. Good for nights when you want to switch off and laugh.
The mood
Funny with heart, romantic.
The pace
Character-first and patient, at 1 hr 43 min.
What might put you off
  • Rated R: meant for adults.
  • Not the pick if you want something heavy or meaningful.

Overachieving actress Rebecca must come to grips with her failing marriage to stay-at-home dad Tom. While Rebecca's slacker brother Tobey can't seem to commit to his aspiring-novelist girlfriend, Elaine. As both relationships spin out of control, the two couples embark on a quest to rediscover the magic and romance of falling in love in New York.

How it earned its rating

  • CriticsBelow par

    28% on Rotten Tomatoes, 43 on Metacritic

  • AudiencesBelow par

    Our audience score: 48%

  • AwardsWeak

    0 wins and 1 nomination from smaller awards and festivals

  • Box office & staying powerBelow par

    $7 million worldwide on a $9 million budget; still draws a steady audience long after release

  • Buzz & cultural impactWeak

    About 17K people sought it out in the past year

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Cast & crew

Directed by Bart Freundlich

  • David DuchovnyTom
  • Julianne MooreRebecca
  • Billy CrudupTobey
  • Maggie GyllenhaalElaine
  • Justin BarthaJasper Bernard
  • Eva MendesFaith Faison
  • Ellen BarkinNorah
  • Garry ShandlingDr. Beekman
  • Sterling K. BrownRand
  • Liam BroggyDavid