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Holding the Man

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2015 | 128 min | Drama

Sunday Safe Bet

Why it’s a Sunday Safe Bet

It earned strong reviews (81% on Rotten Tomatoes), though it had soft box office and little lasting buzz. A safe bet when you want something reliable.

Based on critics, audiences, awards, box office and buzz. Details below.

Is it for you?

Who'll love it
Made for anyone who loves a strong drama.
The mood
Thoughtful and character-driven.
The pace
Takes its time with its characters, at 2 hr 8 min.
What might put you off
Nothing much for most grown-ups.

Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.

How it earned its rating

  • CriticsStrong

    81% on Rotten Tomatoes

  • AudiencesSolid

    7.7 out of 10

  • AwardsSolid

    6 wins and 16 nominations from smaller awards and festivals

  • Reach & staying powerBelow par

    Streaming release that reached a modest audience

  • Buzz & cultural impactBelow par

    About 34K people sought it out in the past year

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Cast & crew

Directed by Neil Armfield

  • Ryan CorrTimothy Conigrave
  • Craig StottJohn Caleo
  • Guy PearceDick Conigrave
  • Sarah SnookPepe Trevor
  • Anthony LaPagliaBob Caleo
  • Geoffrey RushBarry
  • Camilla Ah KinLois Caleo
  • Kerry FoxMary Gert Conigrave
  • Tom HobbsPeter Craig
  • Jacob Collins-LevyAndrew